August highlights: gymnastics shows, Geigerpalooza, Victoria's baptism
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we may be almost through September already, but so many wonderful things happened in August that I can't skip the recap!
1) Gymnastics shows. the girls' gym shows always fall on the first week of August, and I appreciate the separation from the typical end-of-season craziness in May or June. gymnastics is the one activity the girls do throughout the summer. both girls worked so hard this past year! I knew this partially because in June, they both received recommendation cards to move up to the next level this fall, but I hadn't actually seen much of what they were working on because I spend the class time downstairs with Elizabeth (and now Victoria) in the stroller, and the gym is on the upper level. so it was even more impressive to see the results of their training! apart from the skills they have learned, what I value even more is the supportive environment at their gym. they offer recreational classes only, so there's no pressure to join a competitive team. the gym motto ("we build strong kids") is a much appreciated foil to the cultural pressures to look a certain way or be a certain size, messages I know my girls hear and see despite my best efforts.
Cecilia completed the kindergarten level and is leapfrogging ahead to Level 2!
after many weeks of struggling with her bounder (similar to a front handspring with both feet together at the beginning), Greta finally got it and thus met the requirements to move up from Level 3/4 to Level 5/6. she absolutely loves her coach, Ms. Ashley, who worked patiently with her even -- especially! -- on the nights she wanted to quit.
2) Geigerpalooza. it's become tradition for all five of my siblings (plus spouses and significant others) to reconvene at my parents' house in Washington state every August. this year with Victoria arriving in early July, they all came to Pittsburgh instead (with the exception of poor Krista who was completely wiped out by mono, and Genesis who had to work). Auntie Kris drove out from Boston, too. the week was loud and crazy, with so many sweet moments and memories sprinkled throughout. it's particularly fun to watch my nephew interact with his cousins!
this was as close as we got to a full group picture (missing Kelli, Milo, Auntie Kris, Nick, Elizabeth, and Brooke)
celebrating Kira's birthday!
...and a belated celebration for Milo's first birthday (this is the aftermath of his first cupcake!)
mini golf while babywearing!
John scored a hole in one on the 18th hole, earning us a free game!
playing the Banana Split game
the cleanup crew extraordinare
cousin love!
somewhere there is a picture of Dad pushing me and my siblings in a wheelbarrow 30+ years ago...
backyard shenanigans
Dad set up a blind whiskey tasting. almost all of us actually preferred the cheaper Bulleit bourbon to the Elijah Craig
John helped Cece rig up the high hat balanced in the Solo stove for an afternoon concert
so much emotion. this trombone belonged to my Grampa Wayne, who passed away in 2019, and now is passed down to John (who plays the French horn). this was the first time John played it, and he taught Greta and Cecilia how to play too.
3) Victoria's baptism. the baptism and party afterwards were planned on practically a moment's notice as we worked around busy schedules. when we sent out the information on Tuesday for a Friday 6 pm baptism, I was fully prepared for no one to come except ourselves, Victoria's godparents (Nick's cousin and his wife), and Father Aron (our dear friend who married us, is Greta's godfather, and baptized Elizabeth), and it would have been special and beautiful as it was. what I did not expect was that so many families and friends would attend, some traveling from two hours away, some local but fighting rush hour traffic right after work, and some coming with all of their children dressed in Sunday best right at dinner time. I was overwhelmed with emotion as Father Aron pronounced the prayers and blessings over Victoria, entrusting her soul to God.
hanging out in the parking lot before the service started
somewhat skeptical of the evening's activities
Victoria, Cecilia, and Greta with their godparents (missing Greta's godmother and Elizabeth's godparents)
Joe and Sabrina drove out early to help clean and set up the house
all of my girls in their baptism gown (I bought it from Amazon for Greta, but we can pretend it's an heirloom).
after the baptism, we came back home to find even more friends ready to celebrate with us. the next few hours were a whirlwind of replenishing food and cutlery (at the end of the night, I resorted to using actual silverware as I misplaced my extra box of plastic forks -- of course, I found it the next morning in the kitchen cupboard where I'd stashed it "so I wouldn't forget where it was"), kids running in and out as they played in the yard, drinks and gifts and general merriment highlighted by a Disney tune singalong around the piano, then finally settling down for the night with Joe and Sabrina in the guest room and the Chapman-Burkes in the living room on an air mattress. I always over-buy food when we host events and was appalled to run completely out of macaroni and cheese and fruit salad (the biggest hits with the under-8 crowd) and almost out of meatballs, sandwiches, fried chicken and shrimp cocktail. despite that hiccup, it was such a wonderful evening and we are so very grateful for the love and community that surrounds us!
okay, so the grocery store cake could have been decorated a little more beautifully, but it tasted delicious!
our beloved neighbor, who babysits the girls frequently, snuggled Victoria almost the entire night!
it's about time for a good old airing of the grievances. while we have ever so much for which to give thanks, sometimes we need the catharsis of enumerating our woes, big and small. (you can read the 2023 edition here.) _________________________________________ first up, potty training. I buckled down and trained Greta and Cecilia both around age 2 1/2, and it went fairly well (I'm a big fan of waiting until the kid is practically ready to train themselves). Elizabeth turned 2 1/2 near the end of the school year, and logically it seemed like a great time to buckle down -- we wouldn't be driving around to after school sports and activities and we'd have more time at home. I kept waiting for the day when I'd wake up full of excitement and motivation to strip off the diaper and chase a naked toddler around the house. and ... shockingly ... that day never came. then we were preparing for our trip to Seattle in July and it definitely didn't seem like the right time
dear Victoria, sometimes I scoop you up and can't stop myself from squishing your little body right into my chest, and nuzzling my face into your neck until you squeal with giggles. you are just so darn cute! you can spend up to an hour scooting around the family room playing with various toys -- recently you've started to be interested in baby dolls and the Fisher Price doll house. you mostly army crawl, but sometimes you pull yourself forward when you're sitting, too, and a few times you've been able to launch forward an inch or so from a bona fide crawling position. you can stand supported for a little while, but you're not close to pulling up by yourself yet. we had another wonderful report from the orthopedic surgeon this month. both hips remain in place. your left hip has what they call a "delayed ossification center", meaning that it's still primarily cartilage since the hip socket didn't form properly to begin with, but the doctor said tha
sitting outside the new independent coffee shop that opened in the neighborhood this summer as a physician assistant with an undergraduate minor in psychology, I've always been fascinated by the connection between the mind and the body. that interest serves me well in my chosen specialty of primary care/internal medicine, as mental health comes to bear so frequently on physical, or somatic, complaints like fatigue, upset stomach, and dizziness. in any given day, I'll typically have one or two appointments that are scheduled specifically so someone can address their anxiety or depression, and it often comes up as a subject of conversation during routine physicals. I have probably recommended therapy to my patients literally thousands of times, whether it's to deal with an isolated situational stress or grief, or more pervasive issues like OCD, chronic insomnia, bipolar disorder, depression, or borderline personality disorder. when we're discussing starting antidepressant
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